Goals.Are.Overrated. As I wrote that I threw up in my mouth a little bit because it was so painful. Of course I’m being facetious, but only slightly. I love goals, I adore goals, I set goals to set goals. Simply stated, goals make me happy. So even though it pains me to admit it, it’s […]
When things look bad, feel bad, and continue to trend in a bad direction, it’s generally better to be an optimist than a pessimist. Not only does optimism feel better, it’s also healthier. BUT…there is a really big but to this… There are times when people view the future with optimism and excuse their lack […]
It’s easy to confuse self-control with self-discipline. Self-control is about stopping yourself, self-discipline is about pushing yourself. You have self-control when you can stop yourself from exhibiting undesirable behaviors. You have self-discipline when you can push yourself to do the desirable ones. Intuitively it makes sense that if you’re bleeding, you must stop the bleeding before […]