Don’t Make the Mistake of Thinking There is Only One Future

The process vs. the outcome mindset is nearly always the first mindset type I must address with clients. Most people who seek out or who are referred to mindset and mental skills coaching do so because of an outcome they are seeking. However, focusing too much on that outcome is usually the source of what […]

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What it Means When Someone Tells You ‘There is No Secret to Success’

When you ask a successful person the secret to success, more often than not the response will be “there is no secret.” Talk about a frustrating answer… Parents, teachers, preachers, and leaders constantly tell us that God creates all men and women to be equal. Yet, success does not treat all men and women equal. […]

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Counterpoint: If You Want to be Successful Don’t Keep Your Options Open

It’s classic advice to tell someone to keep their options open. Most of the time, this is bad advice. There is only one reason why you need to keep your options open, and that’s when you don’t know what you want. Moreover, when you don’t know what you want it doesn’t matter what option you […]

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