How to Verify If a Process is Working for You

One of the first things I teach clients is to never blindly trust a process you have doubt in until you verify it first. While this may be counter to the pop culture cliché on trusting the process, it’s simply a fact that you can’t trust something when you have doubt. Although you can fake […]

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Why Carrot and Stick Parenting Helps Some Children and Hurts Others

The science says parents shouldn’t use carrots and sticks to push their children to be Olympians, doctors, engineers, or into any other prestigious endeavor. However, there is a small percentage of parents who use bribes, punishments, fear, and other carrot and stick tactics successfully. There is also a small percentage of parents who don’t ever […]

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The Art and Science of Parenting

If there is one thing I’ve learned since I became a parent nearly 2 decades ago, it’s that parenting is far more of an art than a science. Yes, there is plenty of scientific research that shows that particular parenting techniques are better than others. However, because every child is unique, the practical application of […]

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