Just Because There are No Shortcuts Doesn’t Mean It Must be Painful

Unfortunately, for the things you want most out of life, there are no shortcuts. It’s simply a fact that things you want most require a significant investment of time and effort over months, years and sometimes decades. While this may be a sobering fact to accept, there is a consolation prize. Just because there are […]

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When You Want Something You’ve Never Had

When you want something you’ve never had, you can’t behave the same way you’ve always behaved. In other words, anytime you want something you’ve never had, you must change your behavior to change your reality. As a result, you must focus less on what you want and more on the process of changing your behavior. […]

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The Mindset of Underachievers vs. Overachievers

The mindset of underachievers is one that puts blame on something you can’t control when things don’t go your way. Bad luck, referees, bureaucracies, conspiracies, or cheaters are always the culprit. On the other hand, overachievers always take responsibility for their fate. Overachievers focus on the factors they can control, and logically figure out how […]

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