Don’t Try to Force the Day of Success to Come Sooner

History shows that you can control the process, but you can’t control the outcome. So, don’t make the mistake of skipping steps and taking shortcuts to try to force the day of success to come sooner. Shortcutting the process is far more likely to delay success than to accelerate it. One of my favorite authors […]

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The Reason Why Goals Set for More Money, Fame, and Beauty are Bad

Having money, fame and beauty is obviously not a bad thing. However, focusing too much on goals to attain more money, fame, or beauty is bad. In fact, research suggest that these types of goals lead to poor mental health, unhappiness, and depression. Psychology professor Dr. Edward Deci, one of the world’s leading researchers on […]

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It Turns Out Best for People Who Make the Best Out of the Way It Turns Out

I’ve known the quote that titles this post for a while now. But this Christmas, more than any other time in recent memory, the idea behind this quote is particularly relevant. For the vast majority of my over 40 years of life Christmas has been the one major holiday where my extended family is always […]

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