Focus in Sports is Critically Important, But Not All Focus is Good

As a college athlete, I never reached the best version of myself. As a matter of fact, I left so much potential on the field that sometimes I wake up sweating after a dream about how things could have been different. I know that regrets aren’t helpful or healthy. However, a big part of what […]

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The Mental Balancing Act We All Must Manage

There is one mental balancing act we all must manage if we want to become the best version of ourselves. It doesn’t matter if you are a parent or a child, a coach or an athlete, a boss or an individual contributor. Everyday of our life we must learn to effectively balance boredom and anxiety. […]

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Did You Turn Out OK?

A common fallback for bad parenting is the “I turned out OK” argument. “I did that when I grew up and I turned out OK” or “My parents did this to me and I turned out OK” In my humble opinion, this type of thinking from parents is unhealthy and down right irresponsible. Obviously, this […]

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