Negative Self-Talk and Negative Outcomes a Chicken and Egg Problem with a Solution

It’s quite common for athletes to talk to themselves. Mental skill coaches call this “self-talk”. All athletes use self-talk, but some use it in a way that helps them, and others use it in a way that hurts them. When an athlete uses self-talk to hurt themselves, they talk to themselves with language that drives […]

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How to Get Better Faster Without Cheating and Being Completely Ethical

The one question all athletes want to know is how to get better faster without cheating and being completely ethical. I wish I could tell you there was a shortcut for getting better, but I can’t. There is only one proven way I know for sure that will help anyone get better faster and it is […]

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The #1 Mental Skill Athletes Need to Perform Better Under Pressure

“Pressure is a privilege.” That four-word quote that titles Billie Jean King’s book encapsulates the #1 mental skill athletes need to perform better under pressure. It’s also the #1 mental skill athletes need to perform better when they are dealing with training pain, fear, fatigue, or boredom. The name of this mental skill is reframing. […]

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