Counterpoint: You Don’t Need Comfort to Be Happy, You Need Purpose

The basic definition of comfort is “a state of physical ease and freedom from pain or constraint “. This definition reminds me of those moments lying comfortably in bed on a Saturday morning. However, being happy with this thought of lying comfortably in bed depends on the situation. Let me explain by starting with a […]

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Counterpoint: You Have No Control over Lacking Confidence Right Now

I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but if you lack confidence right now in this moment there is nothing you can do about it. Your confidence right now in this moment is a product of your past. Moreover, there is nothing you can do about the past. So, if you lack confidence […]

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Counterpoint: 1% Better Every Day is an Unhealthy, Short-term Mindset

Some people like to say personal growth is about being “1% better” every day. However, this “1% better” every day mindset is unhealthy. Don’t listen to those who try to get you to focus on 1% better every day. It’s a short-term mindset that will cause you to lose sight of long-term progress. The reason […]

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