Counterpoint: “Just Be Yourself” is Counterproductive Advice Unless…

Once upon a time I thought advice to “just be yourself” was solid advice. Now, I know that telling the average person to “just be yourself” is counterproductive to their personal growth. Think about it for a minute. When you tell an average person to “just be yourself” you are telling them to just stay […]

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Why Average People are Average: A Fun Over Satisfaction Mindset

There is one big reason why average people are average. FUN!!! That three-letter word is the primary culprit that keeps average people from breaking through to any level that’s above average. It’s a fact that doing what it takes to become above average at anything meaningful is not and will never be fun. Yes, reaping […]

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The Only Two Reasons Why Great Efforts Lead to Average Results

There is nothing more frustrating than working your ass off to be the best at something and then only end up with average results. The reality is if you truly gave a great effort and really worked your ass off, but the results didn’t follow, it can only mean one of two things. First, it […]

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