Parents Must Stop Using Motivation as the Solution to Every Problem

One of the biggest parenting mistakes I see most often is over subscribing to the idea that motivation solves all problems. Many parents believe that any time their kid struggles it’s the result of a lack of motivation. Whether it’s getting up on time, chores, studying, or extra training for a sport, motivation is always […]

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The Pressure Paradox Sports Parents Must Navigate

Pressure burst pipes, but pressure also makes diamonds. So, what is a parent to do when raising an athlete? Do you use pressure to push your child to be an elite athlete (a diamond)? If so, how can you be sure that your pressure won’t cause your child to burn out (burst their pipes) before […]

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Coping With Stress: A Mindset Comparison

The mindset you use to cope with stress will either provide you with motivation or decrease your motivation. In her preeminent book Mindset: The New Psychology of Success, Carol S. Dweck, Ph.D. provides a simple definition of mindset. The view you adopt for yourself [that] profoundly affects the way you lead your life. So, if you […]

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