Chris Mance II - Mental Skills Coach

Positive self-talk, or the encouragement one gives themselves, has long been recognized as a powerful tool in sports psychology. It can significantly impact an athlete’s game-day performance, influencing their confidence, focus, and ultimately, their success. Today I will explore the basic strategies athletes can utilize to foster a positive dialogue within themselves on game days, thereby enhancing their performance and enjoyment of their sport.

Understanding Self-Talk in Sports

Self-talk is the internal dialogue that runs through an individual’s mind, influencing their actions and reactions. In general, there are two types of self-talk: positive and negative (if you want to go deeper there is also neutral, which I do not cover today). While negative self-talk can lead to decreased performance, stress, and lack of enjoyment, positive self-talk has been shown to improve focus, confidence, and physical endurance. The impact of this inner voice is profound, shaping an athlete’s overall experience and results.

Adopting positive self-talk can transform an athlete’s game-day performance. Mentally, it bolsters self-esteem and concentration, while physically, it can enhance endurance and reduce the perception of effort.

Strategies for Cultivating Positive Self-Talk

Before diving into the strategies, let’s consider the story of Dylan, a high school basketball player known for his incredible talent on the court. However, despite his skill, Dylan struggled with intense self-criticism and doubt, especially during crucial game moments. Recognizing his struggle, his father hired a mental skills coach to help him develop a positive self-talk routine, transforming his game-day performance.

A. Pre-game Preparation

1. Visualization Techniques: Dylan starts his game day routine by visualizing successful plays, imagining the ball swooshing through the net every time. He pictures himself responding to various game situations with calm and skill. Sometimes, he watches his highlights before he visualizes the day’s game to help him see how great he is and enhance his visualization process. He spends anywhere from 30 to 60 minutes on this part of his routine.
2. Goal Setting and Affirmations: He sets realistic yet challenging goals for the game and repeats affirmations like, “I am a confident and skilled player,” reinforcing his self-belief. His affirmations and goals change from week to week depending on how he is feeling and his prior week of practice. He spends anywhere from 10 to 15 minutes on this part of his routine.

B. During the Game

1. Recognizing and Countering Negative Thoughts: Whenever a negative thought creeps in, Dylan has learned to recognize it and counter it with a positive one. Instead of thinking, “I can’t make this shot,” he tells himself, “I’ve made this shot many times before.”
2. Developing a Personal Mantra: Dylan repeats his personal mantra, “Stay calm and focused, I have ice in my veins” during high-pressure moments, helping him maintain composure and concentration. He developed this mantra with the help of his mental skills coach. He tried several other mantras before he picked this one. This is the one he felt worked best for him.

C. Post-game Reflection

1. Assessing Self-talk Patterns: After the game, Dylan reflects on his self-talk, identifying moments where negative thoughts impacted his play and moments where positive self-talk propelled him forward. He writes his reflections down in his journal and regularly reviews his past reflections during this part of his routine.
2. Learning from Experiences and Adjusting Strategies: Based on his reflections, he adjusts his strategies for the next game, continuously improving his mental game. He also writes this down in his journal so he can review and hold himself accountable later.

Challenges and Solutions

Maintaining positive self-talk under pressure is challenging. Athletes like Dylan often face setbacks and moments of doubt. However, by recognizing common obstacles and employing strategies such as regular journaling and seeking support from coaches or mental skills professionals, athletes can overcome these barriers and make positive self-talk a consistent part of their game-day routine.

Furthermore, positive self-talk shouldn’t be limited to just game days. Integrating it into regular training can make it a natural part of an athlete’s mindset. Coaches and parents play a crucial role in this, offering continuous encouragement and helping athletes develop personalized self-talk strategies that align with their goals and personality.

Simply stated, positive self-talk is a game-changer for athletes. It can enable them to overcome mental barriers and perform at their best. By understanding its importance, learning from athletes who have successfully used it, and implementing strategic practices, any athlete can enhance their performance and enjoyment of their sport.