Who Do You Want to Be? An Exercise of Self-Accountability
Today is an appropriate day to ask yourself, “Who do you want to be and why?” It’s a fundamental question that often gets buried in the hustle of daily life. But just as a child takes the time to think about who they want to be on Halloween, taking the time to reflect on who you want to be in life can be fun. Moreover, this can be a powerful exercise in self-accountability.
When you honestly answer this question, you can hold yourself accountable to that answer. It’s in that moment of accountability that a range of emotions will surface – pride, passion, or even pity. Let’s break down why each of these feelings might arise and what you can do if you find yourself in the grip of self-disappointment.
Pride:
When you reflect on who you want to be and realize that you’re already aligning with that vision, pride is the natural response. It’s a moment of self-recognition, a pat on the back for your efforts. Embrace this feeling; it’s a sign that you’re on the right path. Use it as motivation to keep striving for your ideal self. Perhaps you can practice gratitude in this moment and take pride in your commitment to be the ideal version of yourself. Use today as a springboard for daily gratitude making it a routine to celebrate your resilience.
Passion:
For some, the question might ignite a passionate fire within. You know who you want to be, and you’re excited about the journey ahead. This enthusiasm is a valuable driving force. Use today to nurture this passion as it fuels your purpose. Channel this into setting concrete goals and mentally committing to those goals. Consider creating a vision board that visually represents your goals and a project plan to outline how you will make progress feasibly. Surrounding yourself with visual reminders and taking baby steps of progress on your plan consistently will help maintain your enthusiasm and keep you focused on your path to becoming the person you aspire to be.
Pity:
But what if, upon introspection, you find yourself feeling pity? You realize that you’re not living up to your aspirations, and that can be a tough pill to swallow. However, remember that self-pity can be a catalyst for change. It’s a signal that you’re not satisfied with your current path. Use this emotion as a springboard for self-improvement. Explore the reasons behind your dissatisfaction and create a plan for change. Take today to talk to or find a mentor. Another bold step to consider is sending 10 to 20 cold emails or DMs to those living the life you want to live, asking for advice.
Exercise Self-Accountability
Ultimately, asking yourself who you want to be and why is a profound exercise in self-accountability. Whether it evokes pride, passion, or pity, it’s an opportunity for personal growth and transformation. Embrace these emotions, learn from them, and let them guide you on your journey forward.